Valentyna (62) fled from Ukraine and is building a new future in Belgium.
In this interview, she talks about her experiences learning the language, building social connections, and her dream of returning to work as a gynecologist. Her story is one of hope, perseverance, and gratitude.
Author: Daniel (NT2 student, "Write a Newspaper Together")
Can you tell us about your background?
"I come from Ukraine, where I worked as a gynecologist for over 30 years. I always worked with great passion. I helped people at important moments in their lives, and that gave me a lot of satisfaction. But when the war broke out, everything changed. It was a difficult decision to leave my country, but I had no other choice. I fled with my mother and sister to Belgium. I now live in Sint-Pieters-Leeuw. My daughter Sofie had already studied here before the war began. She is now graduated and works as a resident doctor in Aalst. She helps me a lot, especially with learning the language and practical matters."
What were your first impressions of Belgium and Halle?
"My first impressions were very positive. The nature here is beautiful, and the buildings have a unique style. Life is well-organized, which made it easier for me to adapt. Halle holds a special place in my heart. I took language classes there and immediately felt welcome. The people are friendly, and the culture feels accessible. It really helped me find my footing faster."
What challenges have you faced since coming to Belgium?
"Learning the language is my biggest challenge. I take Dutch lessons and participate in Hallo Nederlands activities to practice more, and I join conversation tables in Sint-Pieters-Leeuw. I have also completed a special language course for medicine. The support I receive there helps me enormously. Another challenge is having my diploma recognized. Without recognition, I cannot work as a gynecologist here. The process takes a long time, but I remain positive. I hope to return to the medical field soon."
How have you built social connections in Belgium?
"I have met many people through Hallo Nederlands. There I met Erik and Mie, a retired couple. They took me to beautiful places in Halle and made my days brighter. We have become true friends. During my observation internship as a nurse, I also met new people. The support and friendships I have built here mean a lot to me. Laughing, talking, and learning together makes my days lighter. It gives me a feeling of truly being part of the community."
What strikes you about Belgian culture?
"In Belgium, you always have to make an appointment to visit someone. This is different from Ukraine, where you often visit without an appointment. Life here is very structured. Yet there are also similarities. Catholic holidays like Christmas and Easter are celebrated in Ukraine as well. These traditions feel familiar. For example, we also hide eggs for children at Easter, just like here. I try to maintain my own traditions while learning new Belgian habits. Family gatherings remain important for our family, and I also keep in touch with other Ukrainians in Halle. We help each other and share stories. That creates a sense of connection."